Abusive and Violent Women in Relationships
- Recognizing the Signs -
by Edward Steven Nunes
Abuse, violence, and lying are behaviors chosen by abusive women to cause emotional damage and worry and fear. These women are often promiscuous, selfish, and narcissistic. So they use their moods, rages, and impulses to control people around her and she cannot be satisfied until all others come to admire her. Then these women choose deceit, fury, and assault to get their own way and then they revel in the addicting exhilarating emotional unrest that they have created. In doing that, she presents a false image of herself to conceal her true character; she is addicted to her own personality and feeds on the emotions of others, for she is a narcissist who is in love with herself. So these women will lie, connive, and extort to get their own way.
These women are actors and their jealousy drives these women to unimaginable bounds while treating their partner as possessions to be isolated from friends and family. Moreover, these women will falsely accuse their partners of infidelity while they have affairs. Nearly all of them exhibit erratic mood changes because they are practiced actresses. That is the reason that they can play the play the multiple roles of the terrorist, the tyrant, the fiend, and the victim. Others tell of this their own books, for the term ‘crocodile tears’ entered our lexicon as ‘hypocritical sorrow’ ages ago.
So at some point, she will falsely accuse her spouse or partner of abuse although she is the abuser. This is simply lying by projection. However, the courts still refuse to recognize this established criminal behavior although the legal term is perjury. This is the reason that false allegations are a common feature in divorce proceedings and the courts continue to ignore the problem. By doing so, the courts have become part of the problem and false allegations have become a shrewish woman's weapon of choice. Nevertheless, the matter does not rest there.
The courts have encouraged all kinds of outrageous behaviors making false claims easy to fabricate and hard to refute. All she has to do is to sign a preprinted paper alleging abuse without affirming the truth of her allegations with no penalty goes with lying. This is why the officials do not allow witnesses speak for falsely accused men. They avoid them. Instead they go in the cover of night, as would a crook, to issue secret restraining orders that an impartial tribunal would not support. So this is irrefutable evidence that courts encourage false allegations of abuse. Any issue at law that is bogus is a lie. Nevertheless, many courts do nothing about it and so the lies continue without change. It is as if they came from a prepared script.
The problem is that when others believe her, they join in with more abuse. Now the frustrated husband or partner finds himself a victim of undeserved malice, defamation, and abuse. So when she does not show up at court, it is his fault and not a sign of her guilt. Justice is never blind to assigning blame to men but always appears blind to the truth. Now it is the courts way and so the abuse continues in an unending parade of broken promises, false hopes, and lies.
These women crave the sadistic erotic pleasure that comes from destroying their husband. So they create a climate of terror. Others call this sensation ‘walking on pins and needles’ because these women cannot be satisfied. This is the reason that she does not change. She enjoys hurting others and she is addicted to the sexual release that often follows her moods. These women have no limits and so their outrageous behavior escalates to unbelievable levels but still, no one believes the victim. While DNA testing might disprove abuse, many courts still refuse to require testing. This only bolsters her belief that she remains in control and that is exactly what she wants.
This is one reason that some women fake or inflict injuries on themselves, or use an accomplice, a relative or new lover, to frame her husband. The most common behaviors are pressing false criminal charges, stealing or destroying property, snatching children, and engaging in bad faith litigation. This is why the courts must treat an abusive wife with unrelenting resolve for she is the criminal and not her husband.
Once your spouse or companion has chosen abuse, end the relationship promptly and irrevocably before she accuses others of her of own behavior. In psychology, the students call this phenomenon projection. So get a restraining order, change the locks and sue in civil court. If the assailant is your spouse, file for divorce and use a recording device to prove your claim. Most have a time/date stamp that is based on an atomic clock maintained by the National Institute of Standards and Technology. Some recording devices have embedded frame counters to discourage frame editing and other tampering.
The courts must realize that many women derive sadistic pleasure by destroying their husbands through extended litigation. Sadism is a perversion where a person seeks (sexual) gratification by inflicting cruelty and mental pain on others. Punishing men for the transgressions of guilty women is wrong and that courts must abolish practice because these women chose to be violent and they chose to lie. They are addicted to inflicting abuse. Abusive women and the mandatory arrest policy are a plague on society and they only add more to the harm.
These women chose to be violent and they chose to lie and nothing can change the evidence that some women are addicted to abusing others. So the police are arresting men for what these women do and DNA testing has proved that. Punishing men for the transgressions of guilty women is wrong and the courts must abolish that practice.
So any threat from her, or her representative, must be considered a credible threat that we cannot ignore. Any claim based on immunity whether judicial or based on gender would be proof of claimant's guilt. Moreover, it should not take years to decide an issue unless the court is corrupt. Stalling and the failure to appear is also proof of guilt. So once your spouse has chosen abuse, end the relationship promptly and irrevocably. Get a restraining order, change the locks and evict the bullying shrew.
Edward Steven Nunes
Notes: Sadism is a sexual perversion in which gratification occurs through the infliction of physical or mental pain on others. Since this evokes a physical and mental response, it often results in cruelty and lying. So these women are, in a sense, emotional vampires and this is true of some men. However, when a woman falsely claims rape or abuse, she satisfying her sexual cravings (debauchery).
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